Melanie Zimmer
Melanie Zimmer
Certified VITA Love- Sex- & Relationship Coach, Certified Life Transition Coach – specialized In Menopause, Certified Men’s Sexuality Coach; Certified Couple Counselor & Sex Educator, Intimacy Coach. Breathwork Facilitator & Mindfulness Trainer.
Sensuality Whisperer. Wise & Wild Woman. No-BS Companion.
Let’s be honest, love…
You’ve checked every box.
You’ve shown up, held it all together, kept everyone fed, cared for, emotionally regulated — and maybe even sexually satisfied (sometimes by sheer willpower).
But now?
Your libido is on vacation.
Your body feels… foreign.
Your moods swing like wild vines.
And you’ve got a closet full of clothes but nothing that makes you feel like her — the woman you know is still in there.
– The joyful, confident, deeply connected woman.
– The one who knows her body, owns her pleasure, and speaks her truth without apology.
– The one who doesn’t fake orgasms or small talk anymore.
Hi, I’m Melanie. And I’m here to help you meet her again.
I coach women in perimenopause and menopause who are done feeling invisible, numb, or like their sex life is a distant memory. Women who want real intimacy — not performative perfection. Women who are ready to reclaim their sensuality, reconnect to their bodies, their truth, and their turn-on… and stop shrinking just because the world says they should.
Through trauma-informed 1:1 coaching, breathwork, mindfulness, meditation, rituals, sensual embodiment, sacred sexuality tools, and deep emotional support, through a unique, personalized approach to your individual needs & your story, I guide you to:
– Feel sexy again — not for someone else, but for YOU
– Heal the shame and body stories holding you back
– Communicate your needs (and your “hell yes”s) without guilt
– Enjoy touch, pleasure, intimacy, sensuality, and connection — without pressure
– Remember that midlife isn’t a crisis — it is a portal into connecting to who you really are and who you want to be.
Yes, I bring the expertise. Yes, I hold deep space.
But I’m also the kind of woman you can laugh with, cry with, and say the things you never thought you’d say out loud.
This journey is about YOU first.
Your spark. Your rhythm. Your joy.
Because when you come home to yourself — everything changes.
And when you’re ready…
If you’re in a marriage or partnership and longing to bring that same truth, softness, and sensual fire into your relationship — I also support couples. (Because you need him or her as your ally on your menopausal journey).
Couples who’ve stopped truly talking.
Couples stuck between duty and desire.
Couples who want deeper intimacy, honest communication, and a sex life that feels connected — not just “performed.”
In our work together, I gently guide you both to:
– Speak from your hearts — even when it feels vulnerable
– Uncover hidden desires (and fears) without shame
– Rebuild emotional trust and physical closeness
– Explore sacred sexuality tools that feel nourishing, playful, and pressure-free
– Create a relationship that feels alive again — not like roommates or strangers
But it starts with you, love.
With your body, your voice, your pleasure, your truth.
If you’re craving more spark, more softness, more soul-deep YES…
You’re not too late.
You’re just getting started.
Let’s wake up your life — and your pleasure.
With much care and love,
Melanie
melaniezimmercoaching@gmail.com